Max - Its an EA... probably not a PA - She says they are just good friends and yes in my insecurity I said she could carry on talking to him/texting him...a dumb move on my part

But that was before I got more of the picture. I am trying to get the full picture - then I will set a boundary. If a full blown PA - she will be chucked from MBR and more.

If more of a EA, then i will seek advice here, with IC and maybe a DB coach as to how to preceed.

She has also been disrespectful with her tone/irritability/attitude/tutting about very minor stuff I do around the house. She disguises it by includes the boys in her complaint - 'you all never switch off lights'.

Its calmed down as I am away but I will be back on Friday - Wednesday am. If it starts again I will clamp down on it.

Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16