NDY - managed to read up to mid june - tough, tough sitch you went through
Thanks man. It was tough. Still is TBH but I'm in a much better place.
Reading your last thread I can see she's temp checking you. I could be wrong but you are clearly on the other end of her rope. She wants to split up but at the same time wants full communication and transparency? While an EA is going on? I think she's twigged that you know and is trying to figure out just how much you know.
Look, she's fired you as her husband. She doesn't get to have the same control she had when you were still a couple. Maximus is correct when he talks about respect. Is she being respectful to you? Not from where I'm siting.
Although there are very few success stories where the M is saved on here what I can say is that this won't get any better until you change the dynamic of your R with your W. I can read that you are thinking along these lines and that is good. It's just the execution of those changes in the dynamic you need to think about. You're doing well here.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
