Hi CaliGuy

I am relatively new here and am impressed with your handling of this situation. I, too, have a husband in MLC (For the past 5 years actually) and I threw him out 4 months ago due to his continuing affair with a work colleague. couldn't cope with it anymore. So of course now he thinks I hate him and has retreated completely.

I bought the divorce busting book to help deal with the aftermath but it is not specific for people who are having affairs. Is this the book you read? Or did you read one that was more specific to affairs? (You talk a lot about the DB book but am unsure which one you used). Please advise.

Thanks, and keep up the (damn) good work you are doing. x

Joss


Married Dec. 1997
EA discovered April 2011
H lived at home until August 10th 2015
Separated August 10th 2015
kids aged 8. 14 and 15
I think we're done.