I havent read all your threads but from what I have, i understand she knows you know about EAPA with OM, are OK with it and whats to know when and where you go?
Reading sandi she places a high value on respect. Do you think she does?
From this post it seems more like keeping you tagged on a line than anything else. A controlling behaviour which if the above is true I dont see why you accept it.
if I misread anything or didnt get the whole picture sorry. Just curious.