This was a lovely post to read! Your excitement is contagious. Yes I think you are right about this feeling of detaching. I sense from your words and expression of feeling that you are indeed exactly where you need to be.
I'm not sure if you have read any of Martin Seligman, writer of Authentic Happiness or Learned Optimism- founder of Positive Psychology. A proponent of Post Traumatic Growth. In one of those books he talks about happiness occurring at times when we are in the flow. An effortless state, where we spend time , but time is meaningless, and things generally fall into place with little to no effort from us. Things are in alignment PP.
I am glad to see your plans coming together effortlessly and the affirmation of love from others, tells me that your higher power has always known where you needed to be, to have you see your full potential.
Yes celebrate your evolution!!! I am along for the party! I am so grateful for your journey and mine colliding for a time. Your kindness to me has been such a blessing!
I am a little sad these days on the boards, as many familiar people and are slowly disappearing. People who have no idea the impact that have made in my life. So I say thank you again for everything you have given to me and others here on the boards.
You are a man of great integrity, honor and soulful masculinity. I feel if I meet someone half as insightful warm and loving, I will be a very lucky girl.
Continue to hold faith about that extraordinary love coming your way PP. I'm holding mine at your suggestion.
Your love (whoever she may be, W included). She will be so very fortunate to find you and she will know it!