Thanks kml. I have decided not to go to the Thanksgiving get together. H and I exchanged some texts this week and it did not go well. He is on my health insurance and it was up for renewal for next year. I wanted to keep him on the insurance, but he did not want me to. He said he would get his own by joining an association associated with the store and get the insurance that way. I personally do not trust that he will get the insurance and I think he will procrastinate long enough that he would not be eligible to sign up for it. I know if he doesn't have insurance, I will be liable for any medical expenses he would incur. So even though he did not want me to, I renewed his insurance for next year. Unfortunately, I need a picture of his photo id to verify he can be a dependent.
He is now very angry with me saying that I ignored what he said and he thinks we are not on the same page with things. He wants to talk, which I am sure means he wants to serve me with divorce papers. Maybe I was wrong to sign him up for the insurance we he was adamant that I not sign him up. On the other hand, I was also adamant that I was going to keep him on the insurance. He is saying he can't afford to pay me for the insurance, so I am not sure how he can afford to pay for his own. I have never asked him to pay me for the insurance and I did not expect him to pay me.
I am sure I am handling this situation poorly. At some point, I need to protect myself financially. I can just see him waiting until the last minute to get the insurance and then he would be unable to get it. Then I would be stuck paying his medical bills.
In the middle of all of this, my grandmother passed away. She had been sick off and on for the last few months, so it was somewhat expected. I just really don't have the time or desire to deal with him right now and I need to spend this time with my family. I really don't have time to see him.
Hopefully everyone's week is going well. For everyone in the US, happy thanksgiving tomorrow.
