Not offensive at all and it was just me saying look this is the path to being better. That's all..no pressure teally. It was something that I experienced an presented...more and more I get the feeling should stfu and it's probably true. I'm a wreck and saw light that's it really. I'm just looking for hope. I'm black and white. I don't expect anything from her. I know now what the deal is. I wanted to share hope. Maybe that's wrong, no pressure no nothing. .. I'm battling for peace of mind in a fd up situation. I'm done sharing with her if thats what is thought. Thanks for your help
