Hi Bright- Wow! Kudos to you. You have worked very hard! You deserve an equally substantive partner. You really do.
As for your goals, you have already accomplished so much and all on your own. Your dreams are beautiful.
Happy Thanksgiving!
Me 41, H 47, M 15 yrs, S11, S13 BD 1: 11/4/14 we work on it; really I pretzel myself BD 2: 3/31/15 H goes down to "dorm room" 8/15: H back to MBR 10/15: H back in dorm room 1/18: H files, now divorced