I will be spending T-Day (tomorrow) with my kids at one of my daughter's homes. We're starting new traditions. We will all ignore the elephant in the room; that Dad is with OW by himself (she told us so, on her Facebook page.)

I think it's going to be up to me to lead the way here. So, no crying, pouting, sighing, or even any mention of H. I will be thankful for the kids and just enjoy the fact I'm with them. I CAN and WILL be able to do that, because they need me to. Being a parent never really stops being hard work for those of us who care, does it?


Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

"Surrender to What Is, Let Go of What Was, Have Faith in What Will Be." -S Ricotti