If she is serious about saving the M, instead of the usual "I'll try and see where it goes", then the couple should take it slowly. Give her time to get through withdrawals. Nobody can put it is time frame. Understood
The man's goal is usually physical intimacy. The woman's goal is usually emotional intimacy. For a woman, when her emotionally intimacy is fulfilled, the physical is the icing on the cake. If men only understood they when they start at the right end.......then they get the cake, icing, and ice cream! Come on spill the beans.... how do we start at the right end (for dummies)
I really believe there is one way to measure her physical desire. It's how she responds to the H's kiss. The more passionate her kiss, the more her "heart" is into him. Many waive has tolerated sex, and hardly even give as much as peck during the entire act. But if she's into "him".........wanting him.......it will show in how she responds to his kisses, and/or initiates them herself. Understood but not all women are hot french kissers. And as you know some are just not into sex so much less of the hot steamy type. Though I agree ... as Cher said ... its in the kiss.