Tl2. I'm so confused now. I always though I was passive agressive. Would never have described him that way. Still trying to figure it out. Since he left, no support except for a few purchases that I asked him for. He wants to bargain for less then state mandated percent when he earns 3x my salary,and has no expenses. I would understand this if I was the one that left and cheated on him. But he left me (no proof of affair). My lawyer even said "why does he think he's the only father in state to not have to pay child support?" What is psychology behind that? One counselor thought power struggle. I think it's a weird cheapness and way of being out for himself because he never really iewed us as family..he drives a luxury car so we always took my big car when going places and woulld always ask for my cc to pay gas and say he had no money. He earned 3x my salary! He has always been this way, even when we started dating so I think he's gonna actually have a hard time with a new woman. Hey, thinking of this is making me feel better allready. If there is an affair, she can have him. Let's see how long she puts up with this the fact that he even has luxury car is insane but that's a whole other story.
Last edited by JulieH; 11/25/1506:45 PM.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
the fact that he even has luxury car is insane but that's a whole other story.