Get a lawyer and protect yourself and your children. He is going to try to guilt you and blame you and make you feel like you are the one who did this, but they are all tactics. Just because you get a lawyer doesn't mean you have to pursue, all it means is that someone is watching your back when your emotions keep you from seeing the bigger picture.
Just reread this, and you were right. I left our conversation feeling like I was the one responsible for the demise of our marriage. He kept focusing on a nasty comment I made, that actually had some truth to it..(.complaining that he wasn't spending enough time with kids). I never thought my husband was the manipulative type. Stubborn and obstinate yet, but never manipulative.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
