Originally Posted By: Jpeg
Kfto- believe me I know how you feel about the constant nagging of "why" and I also know that it may not be any comfort to hear but it really is because of their (our spouses) brokenness - they are not happy with themselves. Im sure you were "the best husband". I was "the best wife" - everyone said so, not just H - but my H was "not happy" for him I think it really is a MLC


Jpeg, it's true! I've come to belief that I don't know why she doesn't know why, just that she was f"d up. And it was funny, the MC asked "was he not good enough" "no he's everything I could want, everyone love him. You couldn't ask for a better H".. LOL It's the thing that really bugs me.. I'm trucking through, and trying to not to have a horrible holiday but yet more and more I feel like just going to McDonalds! LOL I think if she told any of her friends what happened, they'd say your a GD fool... Not that that's any conselation of course. Thanks Jpeg! I really believe the nicer and more giving you are, the more people will take and tear you down..
frown it goes beyond any sense of reasoning.. it should NOT be that way.