Yes the phone is protected by passcode as well but I dont know it and have tried several codes like birthdays etc. W also keeps it well guarded, the only place she doesnt take it is the shower!
NB I can find the home address of OM next week, I just need to visit the local library to get access to electoral roll.
This is what I want to say to W:
W: Are you coming to watch TV M: Im not comfortable with that. W: Why not? M: Because I'm not comfortable with you texting OM while we watch TV W: But you said I could call and Text him M: Yes, but would you be comfortable showing me the content of all those texts and showing them to J****** (OM Partner) W: silence M: If you are not comfortable with showing me the content then you are having an inappropriate R with OM.
W can not deny an EA IF she will not show me her phone text convos with OM - to me its that simple.
What does this achieve?
A boundary for a start - she will stop texting him in front of me. It should make her think of the consequences of me telling J****** or J****** finding out. She will probably show anger and resentment but F*** it - its about time I grew some balls
Last edited by isittoolate; 11/25/1503:23 PM.
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