Thanks to Spiff, NDY,Huddy,Roiste and others for your replies.

This board keeps my sanity.

It seems you are asking me to collect evidence which contains sexual content or words of affection etc to confirm the EA and give myself more proof before confronting.

Stuff like 'ILY'. Illicit meet ups etc, not just the goofball convos they have and a solitary 'Missing You' from W. Correct?? I suspect they will flirt and he will be throwing himself at her, and W deflecting.

I can only record conversations from now on and the only two-way convo will be in her car.

Her smartphone is protected by fingerprint and her Ipad is always locked with a keycode when she is away from it. She never uses the PC to logon to FB.

So the cold war continues.

Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16