Hi

I think it is ok to "shelter" the kids from their MLCer choices and life
I have also took on the full financial load to raise 2 kids and one in college
I am grateful that I could do it , but God has provided for all our financial needs
I think my kids had not had to move or change to much of their lives
everything stayed the same except their Dad was no longer present
NO contact for many years..he M OW and moved out of state
I think that part has been good for them

So I guess Im saying no need to try to prove or teach anyone anything
Try to provide as best you can
community colleges are good also
my D has part time jobs ,,that also helps pay for her expenses at college


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow