Sorry i was spinning .....i can only work on me and hope that that has the affect of influencing the outcome I cannot make her change he mind
So my outcome is to stay together but I know I have limited control over this
I do not want to divorce so I will not initiate it nor will I suggest it ...the same comes to selling I do not want to sell so I will not be the one to put the house on the market.
I will work in myself ......I'm going to buy a guitar and learn to play the guitar !
Me:48 W 41 M:18 T:26 2 D 18 & 4 2 S 17 & 13 Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation D filed 06/17 Separate houses 10/17 D Final 29/12//17.