She wants me to Leave 3rd Time .....EA Confirmed!

[Dawgs]

This is true. If it's confirmed (and it sounds like it is) then yes. How you handle it is the important part. So gather the evidence and then make sure it's water tight. Note, a WW will spew and scream because 'They are just friends' and 'There is nothing going on' Etc. Be careful of how you play this because if she's ever accused you of being controlling or manipulating then this will get thrown back in your face. So be like Clint and make sure she can't deny it.

Can't be any more clear when she said "missing you." I would be willing to bet hard money that at minimum it is an EA. And the fact that she is belittling (even if indirectly) you with him is enough to say f*** this. As everyone said, gather, gather, and gather. Confront ONLY when there is proof.

I am not sure on contacting the OM's W. That could get dicey real quick and if you aren't ready for a physical confrontation then you may want to think twice. Little story - I have a friend whose ex got involved with a married man. When he found out, he didn't hit the roof but gathered intel. And a lot of it. He found the guy's FB account (through snooping his W's) and found the guy's W's name. Then he created a fake FB account and send the guy's W screenshot after screenshot. Want to guess what happened? The shite hit the fan but they didn't know who it was from. Both were busted. My friend's W went all sorts of crazy and scared about it. Good stuff.

If you feel you must contact the OM's W, then do it anonymously... Just sayin...