I still think you need to calm down a bit first. You're angry. I get that and understand it but it's not going to help. Giving her a kick in the @ss can back fire as Huddy said. If you have REAL evidence then fine, get your plan together as GB advised.

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During this she was texting OM 'Missing You '.

If this is true and you can prove it then OK, you have a lot of thinking to do. It sure sounds like an EA if this event actually took place.

Here's the thing. The vets here when I was still trying to same my M gave me the best piece of advice ever. Be like Clint Eastwood. Cool calm and collected. Not angry, cool.

Gather your evidence first and foremost.

Good Luck


Me:43 Her:42
M:14
S:9
EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts)
PA started 2014/05/30
BD:2014/11/05
I left 2015/10/01
I returned 2015/05/02
She left 2015/06/10
OM still on the go.