Hi Painter

Yes, I have thought about this myself. In the UK, there are strict regulations regarding homelessness and how you qualify. Based on my W's circumstances, she doesn't qualify. I challenged her as to how she'd managed it, asking her if she had said something derogatory about me. She replied 'You know me, I would never have said anything like that'. I've never heard so much bullsh1t.

Personally, I think she'll have made out that I have thrown her out or something like that. I have no way of getting hold of that information, right now. I don't know if I could go for a freedom of information request. I don't think that would be available to me as it would be protected under the 1984 Data Protection Act.

The Council has arranged to move her in to a new property next Thursday. Her stuff will be held in storage and she won't be able to get access to it as the Council keep the keys. At some stage, they will move her from this accommodation to Council/Housing Association on the proviso that if she rejects the property she is being offered, she will be thrown on to the street! What a way to live your life.

Anyway, I am off to France in December for three days, for work purposes. Last night, she sent SD to see me and find out when I was going, whereabouts in France I was going and for what purpose. So much for not wanting to know me anymore. It's all about control, but I'm moving forward.


M 45 W 52
SD22 S9 D8
BD 6 April 2015
Not living together 4 Dec 2015