She wants me to Leave 3rd Time .....EA Confirmed!

[Huddy]

OK, yeah, you're sick of it, but how is going in all guns blazing going to help? Slowly, slowly, catchy monkey. As NDY says, you've got no real evidence. So, she's slagged you off to OM. If everybody on the planet knew what we said about each other sometimes, we'd all die of shock.

So, what have you got? OK, OM seems to want more than friends but by looking at the exchanges, your W hasn't indicated that she's jumping in and out of the sheets with him - yet.

How does this change your reaction? If she's going to have a PA with OM, then it's gonna happen. You can't stop it. So, this is where you start to look after yourself. GAL, look after your kids, be THE man. She's throwing you crumbs to keep you off the scent. Yes, she is being disrespectful to you (in fact, the ultimate is him being in your house - what a slap that is) and I know how you feel you're being trampled on, but you need firm evidence of this.

Personally (NDY feel free to correct me on this), I wouldn't confront your W, I'd take the evidence to his W, but only when it's FIRM. That should mess it up nicely. But be warned, I have read on here that confrontation doesn't bring an end to things, it can simply drive it underground.