You just went to 100mph in 6 seconds. You're vulnerable right now and could possibly be reading way too much into that conversation. Pick your fights carefully.
Don't send any letters/emails. Get hard evidence first.
I'm a big fan on Wonka and I hope she drops in here. But that post of hers is related to a 'Confirmed' A. You on the other hand don't have a confirmed A just yet.
Deep breaths. Calm down.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.