Pho's thread- things that I have learned

[Dawgs]

Good grief, Pho. That sounds just like my SIL. She is so self-centered that it isn't even funny. Did I mention that she is manipulative? And lets not even forget emotional.

I believe fully that she is the driving force behind my W's decision to divorce. Especially considering that when the SIL started going through her marriage troubles (roughly two months before the W's BD) that my W said "I don't care how bad things get between us, we will never divorce." Then came the many, many phone calls/texts/messages. Remember what they went through together... One of the most damning messages came between the two when the W said "I never knew I was so sad." Oh well.