Again today I got texts from the hospital indicating the ongoing status of some surgical procedure H was having. This is the 2nd time it's happened.

After a while I texted him: "Hey I got texts from the hospital again. Hope you are ok. Are they giving you a frequent guest discount yet?" He texted back, "I am fine"

I didn't ask what was going on, why I was getting updates etc.

I don't think he likes it when I am friendly. It makes it harder to make me the bad guy. The other day he said the negotiation may get hard and we should only text about divorce stuff. Except for the rare occasion I don't text him about personal stuff. Apparently he still feels like my communication is personal. Odd.

Last edited by beckyb; 11/24/15 07:37 PM.

Me53
H48
M 13
No children together
BDMay '15
PA June '15
H moves out,files 8/15 wants "quick divorce" but does nothing
Me sending proposal 12/15, court dates upcoming