Thank you for sharing that about your daughter. I know its tough, but if anyone can handle you can! Sorry that they have such a complicated relationship, and to have the ILs doing their thing on top of it all, good grief! I get that ILs only know one side (or only care about one side), but dang I wish they would open their eyes. But oh well, only so much we can do, eh?
I hope and pray that things can be evened out between your H and daughter. You will be just fine with her while he is away. Continue giving her the love and support only a mother can give. You will be fine!
There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.
