Thanks all for the advice.

I've calmed down a bit. The lack of sleep last night screwed me up.

W reached out to me by phone today. A longish ( not strictly necessary) convo about S11 walk to the train station in the mornings in the dark and her concerns for his safety.

NB I have no concerns but I validated hers. We later had an email exchange with a bit of humour thrown in.

If it wasn't for the confirmed EA yesterday, the last 2 days convos would be considered positive by me. Also the shoulder massage/foot rub on Sunday. She also tagged me in a FB post - first time for weeks.

Immediate plan is to do nothing - wait for the recorder, check its capabilities and put it in her car on Saturday. I need to remove it Monday or Tuesday as I go to Sweden on Wednesday for a few days then back on Friday night.


Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16