I am in the US. It's pretty cut and dry in my state. The way I understand it (from an online calculator) I would pay her around $500 a month. But then out of that, she is responsible for daycare, his insurance,ect... So in the end, I THINK it is actually in my favor? Compared to paying everything as I am now.


Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home