VIse
I know the reality of an actual separation hits hard when you see the steps taking place. I know all to well. But you need to turn that attention to what you are going to do for your own place, etc..

You need her to see you are not the reason for her not being happy. That may take being away from you. My w still blames me for some stuff and it makes me shake my head. I see her for maybe 5 minutes total a week and things are still my fault.

It is a long road

M 37
W 34

T 12
M 8
D 7
S 4

Need break 4/12/15
W no ring 7/7/15

Separate room 4/12/15
Separate living suggested 8/15
W moved out 11/1/15