I don't know why you keep insisting on these things. That part is between me and her. And we both know the answer. The fact is I lied to her and broke her trust.
While we don't need the "gory" details (like what kind of pics, or to see them), it actually is pretty important you are forthcoming about what happened. That is the only way you can find WHY it happened, and to keep from happening again.
It doesn't help that you are so defensive about it. For what its worth the defensiveness makes you seem less contrite.
I think I mention it up-thread, but you can change specifics if you are worried about anonymity (like say you are from South Dakota if you are really from Texas, or you posted pics to match.com instead of grindr, or you were married in 2010 if it was really 2008) or your a carpenter if your really a salesman.
We are here to help, but we really need to know whats going on. Right now we really can't take your word for it that you know what you did wrong, and have taken steps to change that behavior.
Me: 43 M: 10y S:15 ILYBINILWY 2/18/13 W moved out 2/18/13 Filed for D: 2/17/13 Got DB: 2/20/13 Got DR: 2/23/13 180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13 D Final Dec '13