I have said those words before. He knows where I stand. If I said it again, he would just reject again. He said "I can't work on reconciliation" (vs I wont??? Don't know the real difference but to him there is) I will look weak, and trust me I already do.
Also I feel like when it comes to me he just wants opposite of what I want. The more I want something, the more he is resistant to it.
He only cares about the finances. He doesn't care about me or our relationship. Kids have always been secondary to his own needs.
Me: 42 H: 43 Twins age 5 Physically Separated 7/2015
