If you don't want a D then don't file for one. Same for separation. Let her do the dirty work if she wants. You be the one fighting for the saving the marriage. However, you should consult a soliciter to see what your rights are and how to prepare. Hope for the best, prepare for the worst.
In the mean time GAL away so that whatever happens you will be a better person and in a better position.
Me:49 W:45 M:19 T:22 EA confirmed and ended 8/2014 S:19,17 D:9,5
