Consequences of her actions, let her figure it out if she wants it to be fair according to the courts. Me and my W split most things but I have them more often and make more money. She's said in the past she doesn't want my money or to mooch off of me so she never wants to go through child support. I'm fine with paying more, I do in gas that's for sure just driving them to daycare and school. W doesn't realize it but if she ever did file for child support and the overnights stayed the same as they have been the last 2 months it would be me getting it, not her. Again, her decision if she did and she would have to live it with. Just like your XF will have to realize this. If she feels entitled and wants the court to decide what she's deserves, well, let the court decide what she deserves.
Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be
