Well, last night at kid swap I got another kick in the guts... I've spent the past 12 hours trying to comprehend what is happening. XF now went ahead and filed for child support. Which I get, if I wasn't already paying everything for our son. I just don't know which way to turn right now? Do I continue paying what I have been and act like nothing happened? Or stop and let her see how much she is already getting?

Should be getting a call back from my lawyer shortly, hopefully have some answers after that conversation...

Me 34, XF 27
Many years together
Son 4
Engaged
Not engaged
Many false starts by XF
7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life
2/17 girlfriend moves in my home