Will have to agree with NDY.

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At this point you DO NOT know for sure if there is an A to worry about. I agree the evidence doesn't look good but make sure your case is water tight first and foremost.


There is an A. Maybe just an EA, but there is definitely an A going on.

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Use the recorder and listen to what's going on. If it is an A you will find out soon enough. You need to be prepared for that one friend. Nothing, and I mean NOTHING is more devastating than hearing and admission from their own lips.


Be VERY, VERY CAREFUL on the recorder. And I mean careful. What do the laws say concerning this? In my area, a recording may be made (and admissible) ONLY IF the one doing the recording is also being recorded - in other words, you can't make the recording unless you are also being recorded, too. Some cases it isn't admissible, and in other it can land you in legal hot water. Be careful!

But showing up where you are unexpected is an awesome idea. If you do happen to catch something going on that shouldn't be, keep your emotions in check!

Keep your chin up!


There are moments in this life when you are so confident in the rightness of your actions, that not even for a second do you consider the option that you might be wrong.