Originally Posted By: ep0215
When H did the same to me I got my hopes up and it turned out he was telling me he decided we are getting D without counseling or trying to work on it. I'm not telling you this to scare you but to warn you. It seems to be the script they go by. He may b trying to appease his guilt. I think it's best to not respond at this point. Your busy GAL and all.

Stay strong! (((Hugs)))


Thank you.

That makes perfect sense.

It also feels weird, like he's fishing, or something. There's some element of manipulation going on.


Me: 48, XH: 42
T: 18 years, M: 15 years

EA/PA 1: 6/2012
EA/PA 2: from autumn 2012-present

BD: 5/2013
ILYBNILWY BD & left: 10/2015

OW conceived: 8/2016
Born: 4/2017

H filed: 7/2017
D final: 28/12/2017