Lost Hope (5)

[JulieH]

Painter, that is basically what attorney said. On letter, it did say court can override state percent. I worry because I have some money in my accounts, but he does not. I am sure he has been hiding it for a while or has some sort of addiction because he earns 3x my salary and has had no expenses living with family for 2 years.

I think it's all about the money as well. He keeps bringing up an admittedly nasty comment I made because I felt frusturated he was not spending time with the kids and how I never did anything for him.

I kept bringing up fact that we never really worked at reconciliation. We could have went to mc (our counselor was beyond unethical. Even he admits it) we could have moved out of family house and got apt so we could have privacy, we could have went on dates when he left. He never wanted to. Now he is upset over cost???