She says she does not love me any longer loves me just not in love with me she says she feels I have been controlling her and that I was not the best father to our children put myself in front of the family with work and my hobbies. Neither of us have played away. Her emotional needs are being met by facebook I have been reading lots on this site and I should have posted sooner. I do not want to divorce or I would not have joined this site.
I do not want to make matters worse. I have done many of the wrong things begging trying to convince her to change her mind she shows me zero affection she has no love for me. We have been separated for five months and the being in limbo is killing me
I see the next stage is selling our house neither of us could afford to stay and pay for everything alone.