Hey,

W texted me at work about kids Christmas gifts, I didn't reply till I got home from work. We are splitting the cost of the gifts.

W worked late last night, I had the kids all cozy on the couch until W cam home. The oldest left to sit with her. I helped youngest with home work.

W was up when I was up in the morning, she shows me the gift she could get and wanted me to agree, I said ok its a good price.

W then mentions again about what is left on the mortgage, her parents hold our mortgage, and have said that they decided to waive the interest and put all the money we paid to the principal.

This is a game changer. They figured out a way to give their daughter money to help her D that also helps me financially but not to save the MR. I get a slight feeling of being bought to go away. As you can tell I have mixed feeling about what they want to do.

I felt this morning that MR was done, She has the means now, the key for her is to sell the house to unlock what she needs to move on. I will also have the means to get set up in my own place. All she mentioned this morning was how nice it was of her parents to do that, and how much money we would be getting. She looked so happy.


Me late 30's
W mid 30's
T 15, M 10
S4, S7
ILYBNILWY June 2015
In house S July 2015
W rings off Oct 2015
My ring off Feb 2015
Separate houses June 2016