Can you give us a bit more detail on how you ended up here? What I'm reading is you both kind of drifted apart for a while, hardly a reason for your W to say she's done. So is there more detail you can share?
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.