I need to look into the UK laws about divorcing and how I get this started if this is what she wants. As much as I love her if this is what she wants and I cannot help her to change her mind then I have to let her go. This hurts.
Should I arrange a visit to a soliciter and get a separation agreement in place are they 100 percent legally binding. I want to agree the finances now and get this in place so further down the line she does not change things and get nasty.
Why are you doing the work for her if you dont want a divorce?
Yes see a solicitor and know your rights.
And it is true that you may get a better "deal" financially the quicker you act.
