My wife has asked to separate from me she says we have been living separate lives for a number of years. I disagree yes we both have our own lives but we have always done things as a family a well. We have been separated for 4 months and I wish I had found this place sooner I have been making many of the mistakes I have bought DR and have started to read it
The last four months we have been living in the same house with our children. I read about detaching and I feel that I need to put some space between my Wife and I have the option to go and move in with my parents are there any implications if I move out the house for a few months give her some space
I want to save the marriage or as I have seen written build a new marriage but she says it is over and she will not change her mind. How long should I keep trying to show her my love and try to get her to give us another go. I read many different sites on how to save the marrage and some say keep trying to talk to her keep a conversation going most want me to part with some money and I will buy the information if I truly felt it would help
I really am at the end and part of me thinks we need to put our house on the market move into smaller houses if this is what she wants. I get to see my family every day and the thought of not seeing my children when and if I want to hurts me more than anything. For the past 15 odd years I have been able to choose when I see my children this is now being taken away from me
