Huddy I've decided to confront her, probably Saturday.

I will set a boundary, including proceeding to D if necessary.

She isn't going to snap out of it. She has been cake eating all along. Me for domestic needs and OM for emotional needs. It going to stop now or its D.

I don't need evidence. I don't need to confirm a PA, I don't need to wait.
StrongJ has a very similar thread and I will post on his.

I will just say....the EA needs to stop. I won't be in an OM etc.

If she denies its an EA?

Why does she ring him everyday? Or vice versa
Why does she text him every night or vice versa

Would she be happy for me to read all their texts etc.
Would she be happy for OMs partner to read all their text etc.

I have lost my MR, I have nothing to lose

Last edited by isittoolate; 11/24/15 08:58 AM.
Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16