I've said it before and I'll say it again, why the hang up about the perceived lack of attractiveness of this man, on your viewpoint? He could look like the elephant man but your W sees something in him. Does this change what you should be doing - no.
Detach, don't believe anything she says and work on yourself. Worrying about the OM isn't going to help right now.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
