You may want to have a look at JStrong's thread. He just had a showdown with his W and posters feel he handled it well. You can see in his post the impact on his W and her realisation - I may have gone too far here..
I think there are parallels with your current sitch...
Take care my friend
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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
