Today until Friday I will just do NC until my bedtime phone call to the kids. If W try's to engage in convo I will be civil but end it on my terms.

I would be grateful for advice here. Mr Bond, Sandi

I've reread 250 posts from Sandi2s WW thread but want to plan. I understand the need for W to feel loss and for her to stop the disrespect, resentment and rebelliousness etc. My actions will speak louder than words. I need to do things for me without thought for W.

I want to only do stuff that moves the MR forward and not backwards. There is a confrontation coming, and a fine line to walk. All WW's EA/PA start with a confrontation. How far do I take it,? Boundaries with ultimatum.?

I've decided I will not be going to the movies with her, will not be buying her more than one birthday present or Xmas present, will not be inviting her to join the boys and I on a trip to London and definitely will not be moving out of the house

Last edited by isittoolate; 11/24/15 07:22 AM.
Me49 W45
T15 M13
S11 S8
BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12
Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12
W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing!
May-Oct14 drifting
Dec 14 W agrees to more QT
BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY
W filed 1/25/16