Hello fine people of DB world. Thank you Di-mond, Jpeg, Mona, epO215, 2pointO for your kind words. When I found those words, I thought some of you might like them also, so I copied and pasted them here. I'm glad I did.
Not much is happening here. Although I feel disappointed with my wife's behavior I accept it and give her the space she wants. This zen story sums up how I deal with my emotions of my circumstance.
Traveler: "What kind of weather are we going to have today?" Shepherd: "The kind of weather I like." Traveler: "How do you know it will be the kind of weather you like?" Shepherd: "Having found out, sir, that I cannot always get what I like, I have learned to always like what I get. So I am quite sure we will have the kind of weather I like."
This is the marital relationship she desires at this time. I support her and hope she finds peace.
