Ok Thanks--I guess I get impatient this whole process has taken so much time and every time I let go, he/they send a message again and bait me/us again-
But you are right..D can handle it and she doesn't seem too attached to the outcome at first, I think she thought she would connect with him and now she sees how confused they are..with their mixed messages and half way attempts on connecting One thing I have to remember also is I am NOT in control of the outcome here and I need to expect nothing..nothing that is my issue..I want resolution/closure
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