Dealing with the Holidays

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I am with you Becky. Thanksgiving won't be so bad because I am going to my parents, but have no plans for Xmas yet and am dreading it. I just find myself getting super emotional lately.

H's L sent over a settlement proposal to my L today. Just made me boil looking at the numbers. My L said we can delay until after the holidays, which I agreed to. I don't want to deal with it all now since the added emotions with the holiday might make it hard to stay rational. I am sure that will not make H happy, but I need to start thinking more of what is best for me.

The whole thing just makes me sick.



I have also been debating what to do with inlaws. I opted to do the nice thing and put a card for Thanksgiving in the mail today. Have not heard one word from them since I filed, which I find hurtful. I have known these people for 14 years. We were not close, but we were friendly.