Just read up about you.. I had popped in once in a while to your thread in the past. Our situations are somewhat similar... except you have way more contact with your H than I have with my W. Had the same FB issues (I blocked her), both stuck in this limbo state.. ugh. I got the 'sorry this is so hard' comment a few times right after she moved out. I am trying to learn spanish too... we'll see how that goes. I slipped up and texted my wife a story a while back as well... it happens.
Anyway, it seems like you are holding up remarkably well. I guess like one of the other posters mentioned we just have to use this time make our selves better right? We'll get there