Thanks for the post Feyth... I will have to read up on your situation. Good to have someone in a similar spot (ie no kids, no contact).
I don't see how I can drop that heavy suit case until there is an official divorce. I know, I know.... it is only paper. But I mean, to me, it has some finality to it. After things are official, then I will never be able to talk to her again. She would be threat to any future relationship I ever have. She has helped me destroy them in the past.
I am just tired... so tired. 16 years she has been in complete in control. with me when she wants, living the life the rest of the time, but I am always here. I never gave anyone else a chance.
I just am having trouble seeing how I can move forward until there is some movement here.
